Ellen Kreidman, a dynamic public speaker and best-selling author, is the founder of the highly successful Light His Fire and Light Her Fire seminars. I share her dedication in helping people keep the romance and passion alive. On this site you will find discussions, chat, articles and humour, even recommended places for that second (or third.....or....) honeymoon!

This site has been called a "life-saver" by many women who post to the message boards. Whether you are a second/subsequent wife or are just considering it, this is the place to visit. Your issue could be huge or small, financial or emotional. Are you battling the first wife, your adult step-children, the former in-laws, the legal system? There are superb articles, book reviews, some humour, and a host of women from many countries keeping the message boards rattling along.

This site just hums with information and help, but most of all with the kindness and support shown by women to others in their situation.